How to be a girl who has a personality?

 How to Find Your Style and Personality?

It's a lot of tip for you.

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Don't think about outfits at first. What are your favorite colors?
When you find a color you love, dig deeper. If you like purple, is there a specific shade of purple that you like?

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Think about the type of music you like. Do you like My Chemical Romance or Hannah Montana? Do you like Linkin Park or Britney Spears? Are you obsessed with Skye Sweetnam or Ashlee Simpson?
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Look around at different shops - they don't have to be name-brand. Take pictures or write about some clothes that you liked.
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Find a hairstyle that expresses your individuality and fits the shape of your face. Don't walk into a hair salon and get a new hairdo just yet. To make sure you're making the right decision, use a virtual hairstyle program like Makeoversolutions.com to see how hairstyles will suite you. After you get home with your new hair, look up what type of hairstyle you have: Emo, Punk, Prep or other. Make sure to do this afterwards or you will get influenced and choose a hairstyle that falls in the genre you think you are in, rather than the one you really are in.
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Write a story. Even if you don't like writing, this could be fun. Write about whatever you want. Don't think about what others will say, because they won't ever see the story. Let your imagination run wild.
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Once you are done with the story, examine your favorite character. Often, new writers will make themselves characters in books. This annoys readers and is often labeled "Mary Sue", but looking at the character you wrote to represent yourself can give you an idea of what you want to be.
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Take Quizzes. Do not be afraid to take personality quizzes. They might help. Be sure to record your results, even if you don't think they are correct.
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Make a list! Write down the favorite colors that you found in Step One. Write down your favorite bands and music genres. Write about or look at the pictures of the clothes you craved. Read your story and write about your favorite character. Record the results from those Quizzes you took.
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Make a list of your hobbies. Make sure to write all of your favorite hobbies down.
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Research what the styles (punk, emo, prep, etc) really mean.
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Go over your list. If there a pattern to be found? Do you like punk music and punk clothes? Do you like pop music and glittery clothes? If your tastes in music/colors/clothes are too diverse to find a pattern, don't worry: you are just open minded and truly unique.